Ravishing

Clever, witty, Tennessee man,
moving to NYC to come out at age twenty-five,
earn a living, explore gay life,
come into your own.

Computer geek, problem-solving
detective-playing sleuth,
enjoying martinis and bitchy banter
after a day’s hard work.

Our one drag extravaganza,
you ravishing in pink satin gown
me Bob Mackey sheer black,
faces painted, wigs stacked, heels unsteady.

You fought AIDS hard and early on,
pioneer spirit and kind soul,
breaking your mom’s heart,
her ravaged son dying before her own.

Dear Cole, buried back in Tennessee,
each spring your pink dogwood petals bloom
inspiring our upstate home as
we dance and quip and cry again.